Many people that I speak with, including my family, often tell me that “I have to do it.” I too have said that many times in the past until I learned that most of the reasons I am where I am today is because I chose a certain pathway. But something came to light for me after I watched the movie, “Dr. Strange” when I heard a statement in the movie when Dr. Strange said “I am not ready.” The response from the Ancient One was, “No one ever is, We don’t get to choose our time.”